mmmmhhmmmm..........
i define patience as "having the sanity to wait till the right time comes"....
an 8 letter word with such a deep meaning attached to it..
i think of the times when i've been patient enough....and i can't even remembr a second of patience in my life untill a few months back.....
was i patient enough when i had to sit for the last lecture in my school waiting for the bell to ring so that i could rush back home....??
was i patient enough when i had to wait for the clock to go past 4pm so that i could run out of my house and play.....??
no, not at all.....this is one quality that i have may be lacked since my childhood days..i never had
the patience to wait for the right time to come..
i always believed that,"the right time is the time when u want to do things or the time when u want the things to go your way"....
was i patient enough when i broke up with my 1st gf.....??i never had the patience to give enough time to our relationship to blossom....
was i patient enough when i desperately tried to have another gf....??
No, not at all....perahaps this is the sole reson why i've not had a gf since i broke up with my 1st.....
mmmmhmmmm.....
so, WHEN DOES THE RIGHT TIME COME????
A big question..........
a question which has no right answer....
many people say that the right time will come on its own.....
but isn't it a vague answer??
well i can certainly try and answer this question....
"The right time comes when you least expect the things to go your way"....
i know many of you would disagree to my point of view..you ll say that it is a vague statement..
but i am saying this on the basis of 2,3 experiences which i've had in the past 6 months or so..
i can definitly share one of them with you guyz.....
mmmhmmmm.....
for your information i have been a mangament student for the past two years of my life.....
and thanks to the recession in the lovely globalized economies round the world we had a horrendous time this year during our placement season.....
at one time it seemed we'll have to place ourselves in our own non existent firms....
one thing was foe sure this year.....we won't have 100% placements this year.....
at one point of time i had lost it all.....i was under a lot of mental stress....
day by day i was goin insane.....man even now when i think of those times i get a cold feet.....
that was the time when i heard this 8 letter word "PATIENCE" from one of my seniors....
so the very next day i tried waiting for the right time to come hoping that it would come soon....
and i would get the placement bumps from my friends......i was tired of giving bumps to my other batchmates.....
days passed by and with them my expectations of getting placed became lesser and lesser....
and i had learnt to live that way (under stress)..
Many a times the stress was getting better of me....
it was at the time when i expected the least, that things started going my way....
All of a sudden i started getting chances and finally i converted one of 'em.....
I got the placement bumps from my friends and perhaps i was the happiest person on earth that day......
that was the day when i learnt the true and the hidden meaning of this 8 letter word "PATIENCE"...
If i had the patience to wait for the right time, perhaps i could have avoided all that ----in mental stress that i went through those 3 past months.....
perhaps i could have utilised my time in a better way......
and yeah.....if i remain patient enough,
perhaps ill soon have anodr gf....:)
but one thing is for sure my friends..
it took me 22 long years to understand the hidden meaning of "PATIENCE"....
and trust me its never too late.....
i'am now a more patient guy than ever....
mmmmhhhhmmmmm........
I now Know that
"PATIENCE IS THE KEY" to any lock which u want to unlock......
